Hello, and welcome.

Realized Potential and Eclipse Therapy exist because I have experienced the deep, searing pain of living way out of alignment with who I really am.

I have lived with self-loathing. With suicidality, depression, and sustained disconnection from life. I have lived believing to my very core that this was just the way it goes and that I was a person worth despising.

Furthermore, I have experienced the excruciating pain of reacting to those I love dearly in hurtful, angry, and sometimes scary ways, not knowing how to stop, and constantly afraid of what would happen if I really lost it.

I have lived what looked from the outside like a normal, fairly happy, fine life. All the while feeling desperately sad, always wondering if I could keep it together enough so that no one else would know how far I was from their perception of me.

And you might think that this was before I got help. But most of it came during. Even as I grew and healed, I continued to experience the agony of being so far from where I wanted to be; I experienced, over and over again, the sensation of being poised at the edge of a cliff, ready to take flight, only to find that instead of soaring, I hopped to the next arduous slog up a steep and lonely mountain.

From traditional therapy to the most woo-woo of methodologies, I spent the better part of 30 years working on myself, trying to find out what was wrong with me so I could be authentically happy and peaceful and loving and kind.

You are here, at my web site, because that process took me way too long.

I don’t want that for you. If you are hurting, if you feel lost, if you harm yourself or loved ones with your thoughts, your words, or your actions, if you resonate with any of this and if you are ready to find and be who you really are, then I created Realized Potential and its signature process, Eclipse Therapy, for you.

Come, let me share this path with you. I have paved the way. There is nothing wrong with you. You are not broken or damaged. You are neither your symptoms nor your diagnoses. The fact that you don’t know this or see it or experience it only means that you are eclipsed.

The moon that hides your radiance is made from interpretations of life. These interpretations may have once served you, even kept you safe and protected. But now they are self-defeating and obscure the truth of your radiant self.

If you are ready to release your self-doubts, your hot buttons, your exhausting patterns and beliefs that keep you down, come with me. Together, let’s move the moon.